A Rolling Stop?

by DanWolgemuth on November 26, 2025

Littered throughout my neighborhood are stop signs. In fact, just about 100 feet north of my driveway is one, and a quarter of a mile south is another—both of which I’ve passed hundreds of times over the last 20 years.

While I understand that the octagonal sign says STOP, I seldom feel compelled to do so. Completely. Most often I translate the command into a suggestion to simply slow down and check for inconvenient traffic. It’s embarrassing to admit, but absolutely true (please don’t tell my grandchildren who are learning to drive!).

A rolling stop. A tap of the brakes. Velocity adjusted, but not eliminated.

Thursday is Thanksgiving. A STOP sign.

Across the traffic of life and living, it’s an octagonal sign that suggests a change in speed—an intentional adjustment of velocity. The persistent decision throughout the holiday will be whether I come to a complete stop or merely tap the brakes.

Will I intentionally arrest my thoughts enough to fully and completely engage? Will the volume of cross traffic be irrelevant because I don’t intend to join them?

I’ll be busy. A turkey to grill, a once-a-year meal to help prepare, grandchildren to tackle, a football to throw… but stopped. Not rolling through. Not momentarily available. A full stop. Perhaps even stopped long enough to shift gears. Park, not drive.

A plan for thanksgiving on Thanksgiving. A strategy for laughter and joy.

Vacant moments ready to be filled with immediate opportunity. Notifications off. Fully present. Agile. Nimble. Engaged.

When I stop, I serve. When I serve, I honor those I love. And when I do that, I steward the love of Jesus in a way that brings Him delight… even as it does the same for me.

Happy Thanksgiving. Full STOP.

Not rolling through. Not tapping my brakes. Stopped.

Nourishment for the soul. A feast without calories.

Busy, but stopped. Stopped, but moving in the right direction.

An act of worship. A demonstration of trust. A commitment to love.

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This Can’t Go On…

by DanWolgemuth on November 21, 2025

Words mattered. My mom made sure I understood that. Her children, including her youngest, were often more haphazard, flippant, or even mean with language. Periodically—and always timely—I would hear her offer some paraphrase of the American poet Will Carleton’s quote:

“Thoughts unexpressed may sometimes fall back dead; but God Himself can’t kill them once they’re said,” a line from Carleton’s poem “The First Settler’s Story” (1845–1912).

Words. They mattered when I was a child in the early ’60s. But do they still matter? Certainly, they mattered at the beginning.

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. (John 1:1, ESV)

God spoke words, and things happened. Everything happened. Creation happened. We happened.

Then, at the perfect point in history—Jesus. And words had a pulse. Flesh.

Yes, words mattered at creation.

Yes, words mattered when the snake distorted and deceived.

Yes, words mattered when Peter denied and Jesus restored.

But do they still matter?

Yes. And perhaps now more than ever, as our words are often turbocharged with the velocity of the internet.

Set a guard, O Lord, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips! (Psalm 141:3)

The psalmist knew that through the door of our speech, our words are either toxic or tonic. They destroy and belittle, or they build and encourage—not insincere flattery, but something authentic and humble. Words anchored in truth and bathed in grace.

It is no longer just first graders on a playground calling classmates names… it’s adults. Leaders with microphones and laptops. Not simply contradicting, but demolishing.

• Have the frigid waters of cultural acceptance numbed my image-bearing nerves?
• Have I ignored when letters are assembled into the shape of a dagger and thrust into the reputation of others?
• Do I dismiss or ignore—or even applaud—when words are used to dismantle the credibility, dignity, and worth of another human being?
• Am I prone to ignore the weaponizing of words when they represent my position or my politics?
• Do my own words, or the intonation with which I communicate them, devalue the person they are directed toward?

Jesus, the Word, became flesh. And my words—spoken or written or posted—become flesh as well, and as they do, they reflect the depth of my character and the presence or absence of Christ.

“This is scary: You can tame a tiger, but you can’t tame a tongue—it’s never been done. The tongue runs wild, a wanton killer. With our tongues we bless God our Father; with the same tongues we curse the very men and women he made in his image. Curses and blessings out of the same mouth! My friends, this can’t go on.” (James 3:8–10, MSG)

My Friends, this can’t go on.

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